To see or dream that you are a soldier in your dream, signifies discipline, structure, rigidity and your staunch attitude. You may be imposing your opinions and feelings on others. Alternatively, you are preparing yourself to do battle over an issue. You feel the need to defend your beliefs, values and opinions. To dream that you are an ex-soldier, represents your ability to yield in your decisions and your way of thinking. You need to change your approach toward your goal.