There are no ifs, ands or buts about it, you are feeling completely unappreciated in a part of your life that you hold dear. Dreams involving sprays seen as one part of you gathering far more attention then others. For instance, if you focus on a spray, you aren't focusing on the tree and this is how you are feeling. You are so much more then what people acknowledge... you need to get people to look at the broader you instead of the microcosm you are now being defined within.